Knowing Me is Knowing You

“All I ever wanted was to reach out and touch another human being not just with my hands but with my heart.”

― Tahereh Mafi, Shatter Me

As someone empathic, highly sensitive and quite intuitive, my I had to learn How to set boundaries – simply out of Respect for my own Self, and others.

My presence can be apparently too much for some to handle. 🌞 The pain is visible.

The boundaries are for me, only! They were necessary in order to heal & learn about who I am, and what made & shaped me.

These boundaries are my support system in life to differentiate what my I feels energetically & deeply.

To know what’s mine & what’s yours!

My I can easily pick up on anxiety or depression, even if they have nothing to do with who I am.

My 3 lower chakras (root/sacral/solar plexus) will suddenly swing out that I begin to feel unsafe & ungrounded, even if my I has been feeling completely fine beforehand.

My sacral & solar plexus have, especially, become my bullshit detector over time.

The fear I get to experience at times is like being back at school when I had to take a math’s test, which I was bound to fail.

Not a nice feeling to have at all!

My BS detector gets triggered by simply having been in a crowed place, for example. Or I spent too much time in someone’s company whose energies I sensed & didn’t sit well, or I sat on a train or went into a supermarket. Vibrations and energies are just everywhere, challenging to avoid.

Whether good or bad does not matter, they are simply there!

I can feel these people in their anger & frustrations but also when they are elevated and joyful.

That is My normal!

And I know that can easily unsettle those who know that my I looks right through their bullshit. 😊

I am aware that the majority of people in society does not know How to behave or treat someone like me other than how I would treat them: kindly & respectfully.

Self-care is My Way of Life!

I need seemingly more down-time than others to remember who I am!

Many times some people tried to change me to fit their own mold & put me into a box so that my presence would make them feel better about themselves.

Thing is someone like me cannot be boxed & labeled before the dead-line is up.

Even if my time is up, I’d prefer to have a say in it. Thanks very much!

I’d like my ashes to be spread & planted into a beautiful flower garden. 🌷 🌹 🥀 🌺 🌸 🌼 🌻

Nonetheless, my I has always found a way out, even in the bleakest of situations.

Some might say I have a nose for cultivating an escape – a niche – Faith because everything and everyone is connected.

All what it takes is to see from and with heart! ❤️

Someone like me is a free-spirited and fairly independent individual. Sadly, however, society as a whole seems to be afraid & has an issue with individuality and prefers everyone to conform & be the same.

Now How unstimulating life would be when everyone is & does the same?!

Being empathic, highly sensitive and intuitive is actually the solution because compassionate gardeners of life are here to cultivate a life that feels balanced, light, safe & right for all of us!

Thank You! DD 🌞

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