“All I ever wanted was to reach out and touch another human being not just with my hands but with my heart.”
― Tahereh Mafi, Shatter Me
As someone empathic, highly sensitive and quite intuitive, my I had to learn How to set boundaries – simply out of Respect for my own Self, and others.
My presence can be apparently too much for some to handle. 🌞 The pain is visible.
The boundaries are for me, only! They were necessary in order to heal & learn about who I am, and what made & shaped me.
These boundaries are my support system in life to differentiate what my I feels energetically & deeply.
To know what’s mine & what’s yours!
My I can easily pick up on anxiety or depression, even if they have nothing to do with who I am.
My 3 lower chakras (root/sacral/solar plexus) will suddenly swing out that I begin to feel unsafe & ungrounded, even if my I has been feeling completely fine beforehand.
My sacral & solar plexus have, especially, become my bullshit detector over time.
The fear I get to experience at times is like being back at school when I had to take a math’s test, which I was bound to fail.
Not a nice feeling to have at all!
My BS detector gets triggered by simply having been in a crowed place, for example. Or I spent too much time in someone’s company whose energies I sensed & didn’t sit well, or I sat on a train or went into a supermarket. Vibrations and energies are just everywhere, challenging to avoid.
Whether good or bad does not matter, they are simply there!
I can feel these people in their anger & frustrations but also when they are elevated and joyful.
That is My normal!
And I know that can easily unsettle those who know that my I looks right through their bullshit. 😊
I am aware that the majority of people in society does not know How to behave or treat someone like me other than how I would treat them: kindly & respectfully.
Self-care is My Way of Life!
I need seemingly more down-time than others to remember who I am!
Many times some people tried to change me to fit their own mold & put me into a box so that my presence would make them feel better about themselves.
Thing is someone like me cannot be boxed & labeled before the dead-line is up.
Even if my time is up, I’d prefer to have a say in it. Thanks very much!
I’d like my ashes to be spread & planted into a beautiful flower garden. 🌷 🌹 🥀 🌺 🌸 🌼 🌻
Nonetheless, my I has always found a way out, even in the bleakest of situations.
Some might say I have a nose for cultivating an escape – a niche – Faith because everything and everyone is connected.
All what it takes is to see from and with heart! ❤️
Someone like me is a free-spirited and fairly independent individual. Sadly, however, society as a whole seems to be afraid & has an issue with individuality and prefers everyone to conform & be the same.
Now How unstimulating life would be when everyone is & does the same?!
Being empathic, highly sensitive and intuitive is actually the solution because compassionate gardeners of life are here to cultivate a life that feels balanced, light, safe & right for all of us!
Thank You! DD 🌞